Under the mushrooms
Like flames hiding in opals
Little priceless gems
It is easy to see crowded places as a mass of humanity, the individual personalities lost in the throng or forgotten in the mad rush to survive. And yet so often you get a sudden shock when a hidden gem of a person turns your perception of the world around.
I visited a home for elderly people who were too crippled to care for themselves or had no one else to look after them. There was also one young man who had no family and was afflicted with muscular dystrophy. While he was perfectly fine mentally he could not speak and could only gesture.
We had brought some personal items like soap, toothpaste and toothbrushes for the residents. The elderly people were much more adept at getting what they wanted from visitors and soon the supplies were gone. The young man did not get anything.
I wanted to do something for him, particularly as he did not make a fuss or squabble with anyone and kept his smile.
Not speaking Vietnamese I tried to get him to let me know what he wanted. He made motions indicating he wanted a toothbrush.
I left the compound and went just down the street to a little general shop, bought a toothbrush and toothpaste and took it back. It cost me practically nothing but he seemed delighted. I wanted to offer him more as I felt terrible that I was able, for practically no effort, to give him something he really wanted and could never afford.
He indicated that he wanted a drink and I worked out he wanted me to buy a coffee.
Again I stepped down the street, bought a coffee at a little coffee shop and took it back.
I was worried that his condition might make it hard for him to drink the hot coffee so I tried to help him with it but he pushed it away and started pointing.
It suddenly hit me.
He didn’t want the coffee for himself, he wanted me to buy it for an old man in a wheel chair who was missing a leg and obviously loved coffee.
Here was a young person, trapped by life’s circumstances in a crippled body, forced to live with people three or four times his age, in the most primitive conditions and not permitted to even walk down the street and I turned up and would happily have bought him anything he wanted…and yet all he asked for was a toothbrush and toothpaste and then thought about his friend.
I felt so humbled by this experience and so touched by the obvious generosity of spirit that this wonderful person had within him, despite all of his trouble.
I will never forget this glimpse at a truly kind soul and the delight he showed when he saw the old man enjoying his coffee.
Ronovan Writes haiku challenge prompts for this week are “gem and flame”
The photo is also part of the Mundane Monday Challenge which asks you to look for beauty in mundane objects.
Weekly Photo Challenge: Admiration